Coaching for Neurodivergent
Women in Perimenopause.
Re-build your self trust and learn to work with your body, brain and capacity in a way that fits this season of life.
From surviving to thriving!
Welcome Lovely,
You’re not failing.
You’re overloaded and there’s a reason.
If you’re experiencing neurodivergent traits during perimenopause, whether you are late diagnosed, exploring an assessment, or self identifying, it can feel like everything that once just about worked has suddenly fallen apart.
Your emotions feel louder - in a things hit harder than they used to way. You find yourself in a rage rut out of nowhere and you don't feel able to "cope" like you used to.
Your tolerance is thinner - noise, questions, touch, decisions, all arriving at once can suddenly feel like too much. You need more space than you used to. Things feel harder to manage (work, chores, to do lists, things to remember for the kids.) Your senses feel like they are on constant overload - sounds are louder, you feel overstimulated more often.
Recovery takes longer - one hard moment doesn’t just pass, it lingers. You replay it later, especially when you’re trying to sleep (or focus at work) , and it can leave you feeling wrung out long after the moment itself is over.
And the voice in your head keeps asking, “What is wrong with me?”
You might be worrying that you’re failing, too much, or somehow damaging the people you love simply by existing like this. Nothing about that means you’re broken. It means your nervous system, hormones, and neurodivergent brain are under a lot of strain.
.......then, there's the business!
You have the ideas, the drive and something you genuinely want to build. But your capacity doesn’t always cooperate.
One day you’re full of energy and possibilities. The next, opening your laptop feels like a task requiring three members of staff and a small emergency response team.
The RSD, the fatigue, the escalation into "I can't do this!"
Overwhelm becomes avoidance. Avoidance becomes guilt and self-criticism. Eventually, your nervous system hits the brakes completely.
Add perimenopause, fluctuating hormones, brain fog and the demands of ordinary life, and the business you care about can begin to feel like another thing you’re failing to keep up with.
This isn’t laziness or lack of ambition. And it doesn’t mean you’re not capable of building something meaningful.
It might just mean your neurodivergent brain, body and nervous system have been trying to build in ways that don’t work for you.
This is where I come in...
I support neurodivergent women in perimenopause who are navigating burnout while doing ALL the things!
Using my KINDER™ Framework, we begin with your nervous system, NOT your to-do list. Together, we explore what is happening beneath the procrastination, overwhelm, inconsistent motivation and RSD.
We then begin rebuilding your capacity, self-trust and way of working, so you can move forward without continually pushing yourself towards another crash.
No rigid systems. No shame disguised as accountability. And no pretending your energy is predictable when your hormones clearly missed that particular memo.
Instead, we find practical, flexible ways of working that respect your brain, body and real-life capacity.
When you understand why things feel harder, something powerful happens:
You understand what is really happening
You stop treating overwhelm, avoidance and inconsistent capacity as evidence that you’re lazy or incapable.
You work with the capacity you actually have
Your plans begin to reflect today’s energy, not the imaginary version of you who is permanently rested and inexplicably thrilled by admin.
You rebuild self-trust
You become better able to recognise what you need, make decisions and take action without relying on panic, pressure or shame.
You move forward more sustainably
Instead of swinging between pushing and crashing, you find smaller, kinder ways to create momentum and keep your business moving.
Wired + Tired™
ADHD + perimenopause = 🤯
The chaos storm no-one asked for.
If you find yourself exhausted, overthinking constantly, ruminating, snapping at the kids then this might be for you.
A guide specifically designed for mid-life perimenopausal ADHD women.
It's not another planner or "just get more organised" PDF - it's a guide that works WITH you.
Nervous system fried? Go to that page!
RSD kicked in? Go there!
For just £9, you'll get some quick psycho-ed and some reframes, this is a guide you can use that you won't just download and forget to look at.
At Diane Jones coaching, you will get bespoke coaching support designed to enhance and bring out the best in YOU!
This work isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about helping you stop building against yourself.
You don’t need more pressure, willpower or another person telling you to be consistent.
You need space to understand what has been happening, rebuild your nervous-system capacity and create a way of working that fits who you are now.
Your business should support your life not require you to dismantle yourself to make it work.
That’s what my coaching space is for.
The Unstuck Map™
For the woman who has the ideas, the drive and approximately zero capacity left to act on either.
You don’t need another complicated business plan or a better morning routine.
You need to understand what is keeping you stuck, what your capacity can genuinely hold and what one small next move might look like.
Inside this free guide, you’ll find five short, practical tools to help you:
* understand your stuck cycle
* recognise what is blocking your momentum
* create a more honest to-do list
* choose one achievable next step
* notice the progress your brain keeps dismissing
Download the free Unstuck Map™ below. Fill in your details and it will land in your inbox ASAP.
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